Monday, February 21, 2011

THE KOITER FAMILY SAGA CONTINUES...

Well -- it has been almost 2 weeks since our little "Lemon" loaf's arrival and I suppose it's time to say goodbye to the pregnancy blog. I have grown so attached to it and this is a sad farewell for me. But --- The Koiter Family story will continue, as always, on our shutterfly share account.

www.thekoiterfamily.shutterfly.com

Our shutterfly account has video, photo, and journal updates of all our goings on!!! Lots of love and hugs!!!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

1 WEEK POST-PARTUM


As much as I cursed Jason and my midwife for pushing me to keep active and keep walking at the end of the pregnancy -- I am really enjoying the pay off!!! I have officially lost 21lbs. as of today -- 1 week post-partum!!! Since this was our last pregnancy Jason and I thought it would be fun to do a few post-partum belly pics as well just to chronicle the return of my pre-pregnancy figure. Right now I'm looking about how I looked at 4 months pregnant and I am so happy with my body. I am really looking forward to getting back into shape and getting to eat and drink whatever I want!!!!! Yippee!!!

RARE RHOGAM REACTION

So -- it has taken me awhile to get around to writing this post, But at my 2 day postpartum check-up I was given a shot of Rhogam because Lennon is O+. I had a rare adverse reaction to it that landed me in an ambulance and on the way to the ER!!! About 30 minutes after I received the shot I began to get very hot and faint and my extremities swelled. This was obviously not something I needed or wanted to deal with having just given birth less than 48 hours before!!! The irony is that I had a home birth so that I could avoid having to go to the hospital (which I hate) and then 2 days later I spent 7 hours strapped to a bunch of machines in a filthy ER!!! YUCK!!!! I was truly devastated by the fact that I had this reaction as I was so conflicted about getting the shot in the first place. We have a family history of adverse reactions to vaccines and my instincts were telling me -- don;t get it. But I also felt that, even though Jason and I are done growing our family, we were better safe than sorry if we ever were to get pregnant again with a positive baby. I SHOULD HAVE TRUSTED MY INSTINCTS!!! I am so glad that I trusted my instincts on not getting this shot at all with Miles and not getting it prenatally with Lennon. Can you imagine what would have happened if I had exposed my little Lennon to this adverse reaction while in utero???? The fact is I didn't and I am so thankful that I followed my mommy instincts. Now, I just have to wait a few weeks and see if the adverse reaction intensifies and becomes the Rheumatoid Arthritis that it is has a tendency to develop into. I will most likely see a Rheumatologist in a few months to get tested and make sure. I am hoping that I will get lucky and skate by. My mom was not so lucky after her Hep B Vaccine many years ago and suffered through arthritic pain for quite some time before it remitted. She's my super hero and I know that if she could make it through it then I can too -- especially with her by my side. Now the next course of action is to take this info to our pediatrician. We are already delaying vaccinations because of our family history of autoimmune reactions to them, but now we have to discuss the fact that our boys' mommy has had a reaction as well. This is taken much more seriously and our ped. will let us know whether or not we should risk it and whether or not we should delay vaxing longer!!! This is such a heartbreaking decision for us on so many levels. We don't know what we I would do if either of our boys were afflicted and suffering from getting vax'd or from not getting vax'd. No one could possibly understand the inner conflict that comes with being faced with these decisions unless they experience it. I'll just keeping trusting my instincts and listening to my mommy voice and know that God is going to guide us and take care of us.

Sunday, February 13, 2011

I NEVER WOULD HAVE KNOWN...

Imagine my surprise when I discovered that....

I had to have a second child to understood how deeply in love I am with Miles.

Not that I didn't love him with all of my being every day of the last 16 months -- but with Lennon's arrival came the discovery of the depths of that love.

ALMOST 4 DAYS OLD AND....

Lennon sleeps like nobody's business. We're actually starting to get worried -- the kid sleeps so much. We're talking about 22-23 hours per day. Miles never slept like this -- so we have no experience with it -- and we have put in a call to the pediatrician. Everyone says that second babies are easier -- but this was not exactly what we had in mind. No complaints here though -- just worries. Who knows -- maybe tomorrow Lennon will wake up and he'll be one fire-ey hot tamale!!! LOL.

Friday, February 11, 2011

INTRODUCING LENNON WYATT KOITER

Our beautiful bundle of boy, Lennon Wyatt, came home to us yesterday afternoon, 2/10/11 at 4:08 PM!!!! Lennon weighs a whopping 9lbs. and is 22in. long. When you consider that he was 10 days early -- it's shocking to think that he would have been close to 10lbs if he was born on time. I shudder to think what would have been if he had come late....;0) The labor was smooth and much easier than my first. The total time was 10 hours, with early labor lasting about 6 hours and active labor about 4. I pushed for about 30 minutes (which was heinously fast) and before we knew it we were holding our perfect little man. Lennon and I are in perfect health and we are all taking it easy and recovering quietly at home. I will continue to update!!!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

IN LABOR!!!

Time-able, consistent contractions began at 5am this morning. They are trucking away now at 4 minutes apart. I will update when Lennon Wyatt arrives!!!!

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

PREPPING FOR LABOR


My mom and I spent the day today getting things prepped for the arrival of little Lennon. The groceries have been stocked and there are enough snacks and beverages for the whole birth team and a small country. We also set up the birth pool. We planned on putting it in the area that we use for the play room, but quickly realized that Miles would have a terrible tantrum if he were not allowed in it. So we had to move it to the living room that is gated off. I am pleased with it's location as there is a nice cozy couch for the birth team to sit on and I can enjoy a nice crackling fire while I soak away the aching contractions. I ordered 7 cases and 6 gallons of water through Vons delivery and they arrived last night. We also have our entire birth kit ready and I have made the oil blends that I want to use throughout labor. I picked rose and lavender. We also updated our Ipod with a playlist that I wanted for this labor and Jason and I have to prep the bed tonight -- but then I think we just have to sit back and wait. Of course -- once active labor starts we'll fill the pool and handle a few last minute things. But all in all -- we are ready to have this baby!!!

PRE-LABOR

WARNING-- this may be a TMI post to some.

Let the countdown begin. I am in pre-labor or the very early stages of labor. After getting out of the shower this morning I discovered that I was "bleeding" down there. Not heavy, not light -- but bleeding. There was also a mixture of discharge and mucus along with the blood and the bleeding lasted until late afternoon. I have been contracting off and on all day long with hours long stretches about 5-7 minutes apart. The pressure is unbelievable and with each contraction I am certain that my water is going to break. Looks like Lennon will most likely be here within the next few days. Keeping out fingers crossed.

THE FINISHED NURSERY









The Nursery is fully finished and boy oh boy are we in love with it. It's so cozy and cute. We had such a blast picking out all of the little details and it was nice to have gone with a mix and match theme that allowed us to incorporate pretty much anything that we came across that we loved. We even made our own hanging light fixture that is suspended from the center of the room so that we could have a little more light than the adorable lion lamp on Lennon's dresser. It will be interesting to see what changes his room goes through in the next few months -- as Miles' room continues to change even now after 16 months. The only thing that is missing from our little one's room now is our little one. Oh -- I just can't wait to nurse and rock him in that chair!!!

Monday, February 7, 2011

MORE REMINISCING....




We are at the any day now point in the pregnancy and at the very most we have 3 weeks before our newest little boy is here. I just keep thinking back to the day that our little Miles was born. I was so lucky to have such an amazing support team. Look at my team -- by my side through it all. I get to share this with them all over again. My mom, Jay Jay, and Renee -- my angels.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

WALKING STAIRS



Jay Jay, Miles, and I have been spending most of our time together these days just walking and walking and walking. This morning we popped little man Miles into the stroller and headed to the elementary school where I walked up and down the stairs (2 at a time) and circled the track. Miles and Daddy explored the
area and had a blast while mommy huffed and puffed away!!!

OUR 38 WEEK BELLY PIC

We decided to take another one at 38 weeks since there was a very small difference between the last two. These past two weeks Lennon has had a huge growth spurt and my tummy is SUPER big!!! Look at the Lennon Bun. He's even adorable in the oven.

38 WEEEKS PREGNANT -- OUR LONG LEEK



How your baby's growing:

Your baby has really plumped up. He weighs about 6.8 pounds and he's over 19 1/2 inches long (like a leek). He has a firm grasp, which you'll soon be able to test when you hold his hand for the first time! His organs have matured and are ready for life outside the womb.
Wondering what color your baby's eyes will be? You may not be able to tell right away. If he's born with brown eyes, they'll likely stay brown. If he's born with steel gray or dark blue eyes, they may stay gray or blue or turn green, hazel, or brown by the time he's 9 months old. That's because a child's irises (the colored part of the eye) may gain more pigment in the months after he's born, but they usually won't get "lighter" or more blue. (Green, hazel, and brown eyes have more pigment than gray or blue eyes.)

Friday, February 4, 2011

I'M SORRY -- I GAINED HOW MUCH???

My midwife almost fell out of her chair, laughing at my reaction, as she took my weight this morning. Seriously -- I almost passed out. Now -- before I tell you what I gained in the past 4 weeks I will say that my total weight gain so far has been 34lbs. and is absolutely as perfect as can be. I am blessed to have had such a healthy weight gain. But -- BUT -- 9lbs. in 4 weeks????? 9lbs.????? I didn't even gain that much over the Christmas Holiday and I ate tons and tons of holiday crap. Good God this baby is going to be ginormous. My midwife agrees -- he's one big boy. We're all really interested to see how long he is too. He is at Station +1 and his feet are still crammed up inside my ribs. We're talking one tall little boy. So -- here I am trying to get over the shock of the biggest weight gain over the smallest amount of time in my life and trying prepare myself mentally for the fact that I will most likely be pushing out a toddler sized newborn. Please pray for my poor lady bits. Sigh. The rest of the prenatal appointment was great. BP is excellent, Lennon's heart sounded great, and my titers were negative once again. Renee has an acupuncturist and massage therapist working out of her birth center now and I made a few appointments with them for next week. They will both work on the acupuncture/acupressure points to help get labor going. I also scheduled a membrane sweep with Renee for next Sunday as I will be 39 weeks and I told Renee that I will be damned if this baby and I go over due!!! I can totally handle on time -- but my head may explode if February 20th comes and goes without. The membrane sweep is what got labor going for me with Miles. Oh and the fact that right afterward Renee made me walk up and down 100+ stairs for 2 hours. Either way -- the sweep will happen on Sunday the 13th. Maybe if we are lucky we will get a Valentine's Day baby. There is something kinda sweet about that...;0) Of course there is always something sweet about February 4,5,6,7,8,9,10.... you get my drift. Well -- Miles is napping and I should take this time to nap too. xoxoxoxoxoxox